Dilemma * Stay in your house or move to a smaller place?

As a blended family with 5 grown up kids, this has been a serious dilemma for us.

Do we stay in our house with a large garden and 5 sheep? Or do we move to a small appartment in the city center close to coffee bars and culture.

Here's what helped us take a decision:

• First question to ask yourself: what makes you tick when you are not working?

• Second question: how close are you with people from your neighbourhood?

• Third question: how often will your kids drop by or not?

And then there's the ChatGPT answer:

Pros

✅ Convenience & Accessibility – Everything is nearby: work, shops, restaurants, entertainment, public transport, and healthcare.✅ Less Maintenance – No need to worry about yard work, house repairs, or extensive cleaning.✅ Better Social Life – More opportunities for socializing, networking, and meeting new people.✅ More Services & Entertainment – Access to cultural events, nightlife, gyms, cafes, and diverse dining options.✅ No Car Needed – Many cities have excellent public transport, reducing or eliminating the need for a car.✅ Increased Safety – Many city apartments have security systems, doormen, or gated access.✅ Potential Cost Savings – Lower costs for heating, maintenance, and commuting (although rent may be higher).

Cons

❌ Less Space & Privacy – Downsizing means limited storage, smaller living areas, and possibly noisy neighbors.❌ Higher Cost of Living – Rent, groceries, and dining out are often more expensive in city centers.❌ No Private Outdoor Space – Losing a garden means no private place to relax, host barbecues, or let pets/kids play.❌ More Noise & Pollution – Traffic, nightlife, and city activity can be loud and stressful.❌ Parking Challenges – Finding a parking spot can be expensive or inconvenient.❌ Less Relaxing Environment – Cities are fast-paced and crowded, which can feel overwhelming.❌ Possible Lifestyle Adjustment – If you're used to open space, nature, and quiet, city life might feel claustrophobic.